If you missed this New Year's Service at FHL 2012, boy did you miss out on something inspiring, the Praise & Worship team was awesome (Go worship team), and the sermon was deep---the Topic was Embracing Your Script in the Narrative of God's Eternal Purpose. So I got to thinking that I'd like to share something with you, it’s my "secret life list", not everybody has one but back then I thought everyone needed one. And boy was my list Bold, I wanted to: (1) Never be defined by where I grew up (Good old Waterhouse – I couldn’t wait to move), (2) Visit Europe (so I've been to England, Wales, and Germany - and passed through Switzerland). (3) Own a Business (started a few - settled with two). (4) Work in an Advertising Agency (yup). (5) Volunteer when I can ---should include developing people (seems I’ve been doing this all my life). (6) Have some once in a lifetime moments----So I was the only black person living in a town in Newbury, and one of two black women working in a company of over 500, I ironed my pants with a spoon and got to Meet Richard Bronson (no not because I ironed my pants with a spoon). And the list goes on, I’ve ticked a few and missed a few and there are others I’ve not yet achieved, like I’ve always wanted to write a book and have several incomplete ones on my PC but I haven’t stumbled across that perfect storyline yet, funny I cannot finish a book but I LOVE to write, from poems, to quotes to songs.......we’ll get back to this.
Okay so those are the good bits. In 2005, I moved to Trinidad, and it seemed that for someone who always “had it together” everything was falling apart, my secret life list was all crumpled up, I got great job offers but there was always some lunatic battling with low self esteem making my life hell, my great ideas for businesses just seemed to not be working out, I ended up working 16 hour days, with no pay, high levels of stress and debt. In 2008 God found me and I have to say he found me because even after receiving the “Gift of the Holy Spirit” I still did not get baptized and if anything life seemed to get harder, 2009-2010 seemed to be a daily battle I felt like I was getting physical blows, even though I couldn't see the person inflicting them and those wounds I received were deeper that anyone could imagine. Then it dawned on me I've made a secret life list that did not include God, he had found me but I didn't find him, I was so embarrassed by this reality. Amidst everything that was going on, I also realized that slowly I had been losing my laughter, that smile that my family and friends had come to know, losing my joy they call it, I could no longer give good advice or uplift anyone since I was begging for some myself, boy was I bitter.
John 15:16 “You did not choose me, but I chose you and appointed you that you should go and bear fruit and that your fruit should abide, so that whatever you ask the Father in my name, he may give it to you.” So for the sake of a happy heart I relinquished my hold on what I still believed was my life at the time. I caved into going to Church (I love you FHL). But the walk was nothing I imagined, I started hearing God’s voice, he actually speaks to me, he whispers, he comforts and trust me when I say you've never been hugged until you've been hugged by God, you've never been loved until you've felt the love of the Holy Spirit. After being baptized we started speaking more frequently, the conversations were no longer one sided and I began to revel in our new found relationship, we don’t always agree and sometimes I have trust issues, but prayer always helps with this. I’m learning lessons of submission & obedience hard lessons for a “ Field-Marshall” who is accustomed to leading in this life. So slowly, and this is not what I’m used to, I began walking towards another purpose, a greater, higher purpose ---- Proverbs 16:9 The heart of man plans his way, but the Lord establishes his steps.
“So you see that gift of accomplishing a set vision, the we can do anything attitude, the ability to rally the troops, turn concepts into reality, he gave those gifts to me for my role in the narrative of HIS Eternal Purpose”. I haven’t quite figured out the entire process yet, but I know it’s towards Evangelism in a creative way, I’m at the birthing stage, but unlike a natural human pregnancy this stage may go on for some time, but having my laughter return is enough to make me want to walk bravely towards God’s plans for me. This year I’ll be doing my first book called “My Mini Motivator” kinda cheesy, but quite fitting for the content. It’s a small, pocket sized book that keeps you going (can’t say much more). I’ll be closing the doors on plans made without God’s consent and aligning myself with God’s purpose, it will not be easy (there are so many ideas). Jeremiah 29:11 “For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans for welfare and not for evil, to give you a future and a hope.”
I leave you with this, my husband always says “It doesn't have to be a lesson learnt, it can be a lesson understood,” I’m sharing this with you so that if you are currently going through hardship, making plans and seeing them fall apart you can stop and think about my lesson. Isaiah 14:27 For the Lord of hosts has purposed, and who will annul it? His hand is stretched out, and who will turn it back? So my friends and family are you walking in or towards God’s eternal Purpose? Pastor shared these texts Luke 1-2, Ephesians 1-3, reflect, search, and if purpose has already found you stop fighting it just submit, trust me it will be nothing you've imagined.